Before they even start asking questions about locations or what to expect from me during our engagement session together, couples have one burning question. “What the heck are we supposed to wear?” I mean, I’ve even asked photographers before my husband and I step in front of the lens. I get it. You want to look goooood while you’re frolicking with me on the beach right? Don’t worry boo, I’ve gotchu! Are you ready for my top 5 tips for choosing the perfect outfit? Ok, then let’s dive right!

Choose Two Outfits

I know what you’re thinking “it’s hard enough to choose one, but TWO OUTFITS? Really Chelsi?” But hold on a sec because we’re going to make choosing outfits so easy even my 9-year-old could do it! Let’s give you some variety by choosing two different looks okay? You’re going to want to pull out one dressy outfit and a more laid back option.

BONUS TIP: We’re probably going to be shooting outdoors far away from the convenience of a restroom, so you may have to change in your car or behind a tree, so I recommend outfits that are easy to get in and out of.

Dress Appropriately for the Location

When choosing outfits, think about what would look good in the location we are shooting in. If we’re going to the beach, you’re going to want to put your toes in the sand, so boots and a parka are out! Considering an urban location? Try wearing something modern or edgy. A leather jacket with a pair of jeans and stilettos perhaps?

You’ve got to Move it

In the infamous words of King Julian from Madagascar, “you’ve got to move it, move it”.

Seriously though, you’ll look your best while wearing something that you are able to move in. If you’re stuck in the same position because you can’t lift your arms or your dress feels too short and you’re afraid your exposing too much leg, you won’t feel comfortable to use some fun prompts ! And you will feel self conscious the whole time which will ultimately lead to those awkward photos that you are terrified of. This also means that you should wear clothing that fits you perfectly. Nothing too loose or tight.

Choose Neutral Tones

When in doubt choose neutrals, but don’t don’t try to be twinsies with your colors. While I love color, in most cases, there’s nothing quite like soft and light neutrals in a photograph.

• Consider light colors such as whites, creams or pastels.

• ​Mix in other neutrals like denim or leather. I love a leather jacket thrown over a lace dress it's timeless yet edgy at the same time. perfect.

• ​Coordinate your outfits using colors and textures but please don't be too matchy-matchy. There is nothing more awkward than two people wearing the same exact shirt, unless of course, you’re a cute elderly couple.

Things That Just Don’t Photograph Well

• T-shirts that have any logos of insignia, no matter how small. Just say no!

• Sweat Suits, tops or bottoms. This includes sweatshirts and sweatpants. This is a total party foul.

• Unless we’re going for a dip in the ocean, no board shorts.

• Flip Flops. I mean, I love ‘em but not at a photo session.

  Accessories that you should avoid like the plague:

• Chains. Anywhere: Belts, Wallets, even around your neck. Nope.

• pocket knives or your phone if we can see it sticking out. You aren’t going to call your buddies during a makeout session and you won’t need your knife either. Leave them in the car!

• Absolutely no baseball caps. Hats are okay, but this isn’t a sporting event, so please keep it classy!

• You’re not Kanye, leave your sunglasses at home.

One Final Thought

The clothes you wear to your engagement session should be a reflection of your love story. Please don't overthink your outfit.  Just wear what you feel good in. If you would never wear a long flowy dress then don't. The last thing I want is to be photographing the version of you that you think fits perfectly in a box that anyone would put you in. Be true to you and I'll be authentically me, and there will be magically made. Pinky promise!

CHELSI IS A DESTINATION WEDDING  AND PORTRAIT PHOTOGRAPHER BASED IN FORT BRAGG, CALIFORNIA. HER BAGS ARE ALWAYS PACKED AND SHE’S READY TO GO ON AN ADVENTURE TO CAPTURE YOUR LOVE STORY! SHE LIVES FOR EXPERIENCING THE BEAUTY ALL AROUND US, CAPTURING UNTAMED LOVE, AND MAKING PEOPLE LAUGH. HER STYLE IS AUTHENTIC, REAL, AND EMOTIONAL. SHE BELIEVES IN LAUGHING TOO MUCH, SINGING TOO LOUD, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY LIVING LIFE TO THE FULLEST. CHELSI PREFERS CAPTURING AUTHENTIC MOMENTS THAT EVOKE EMOTION OVER PERFECTLY POSED PHOTOS.